Now, let me tell you a story that perfectly demonstrates why this is so important. Picture this: Emily, a professional applying for her dream job. She’s aced the interview, has glowing references, and everything seems like smooth sailing. But then comes the background check.
Unbeknownst to Emily, some unflattering pictures from her wild college days have found their way onto social media platforms that she’s long forgotten about. These pictures seriously undermine her professional image and end up costing her that coveted teaching position.
Doesn’t sound like anyone’s idea of fun, right? That’s where our hero’s journey begins – your trip to scrub yourself from unwanted online presence!
💻 Section 1: Assess Your Digital Footprint
First things first, folks – take an honest look at your digital presence across various platforms: social media profiles (Facebook, Twitter), websites or blogs you’ve run in the past, public records sites (like Spokeo or TruthFinder), etc. 🔎
Here are my favorite ways to get started:
1️⃣ Google Yourself: Type in your name in quotation marks (e.g., “John Doe”) and see what pops up. Check out at least the first three pages to get a comprehensive picture. Google has a helpful form you can use to ask them to remove certain search results or information. This includes explicit photos that are either fake, shared without your permission, or that don’t actually show you but appear when someone searches for your name. They also offer the option to take down information that might put you at risk of doxing, like your ID numbers, financial details, medical records, and even your home address and other ways to contact you.
2️⃣ Use People Search Engines: Scour people search engines like Pipl or PeekYou to find any additional mentions of yourself on the web.
3️⃣ Explore Social Media Platforms: Examine all your social media accounts thoroughly to uncover any embarrassing posts or photos that might loom in the shadows.
✅ Pro Tip: Take screenshots or note down any problematic content you find. It’ll come in handy as we move forward.
💡 Section 2: Privacy Settings – Your Best Friend
Whenever I’m trying to clean up my online presence, the first thing I do is navigate through each platform’s privacy settings. These features are crucial in helping you maintain control over your personal information.
🔒 Facebook:
1️⃣ Go to “Settings & Privacy,” then select “Privacy Checkup.” Make sure your posts, photos, and personal information are locked down tight.
2️⃣ Review the apps that have access to your Facebook profile by going to “Settings & Privacy” > “Apps and Websites.”
🐦 Twitter:
1️⃣ Click on your profile picture > “Settings and privacy.”
2️⃣ Under the “Account” tab, check if your tweets are protected. If not, consider changing it to a private account.
☁️ LinkedIn:
1️⃣ Locate the dropdown menu under your profile picture > select “Settings & Privacy.”
2️⃣ Explore the different sections here for privacy tweaks that suit your needs – like who can see your connections or contact info.
Remember: it’s important to customize these settings according to YOUR comfort level. What works for one person may not work for another!
📝 Section 3: Disappear with Dignity – Delete or Deactivate
Continuing our quest, it’s time to address those notorious social media accounts that no longer serve you well. But wait! Before hitting delete or deactivating any accounts, make sure you:
1️⃣ Download Your Data: Many platforms allow users to download their data before closing an account permanently. This is useful if you want to keep memories (photos, videos) without maintaining an active presence.
2️⃣ Redirect URLs: If you’re shutting down a blog or website where people know to find you, redirect the URLs to an “Out of Service” page or your new online presence.
🔒 Section 4: The Battles Against Data Brokers
Data brokers are just what they sound like – companies that collect and sell personal information. Dealing with them is a real battle, but you can win it! Here’s what you need to do:
1️⃣ Opt-Out: Use services like Whitepages or Spokeo’s opt-out tools to remove your information from their databases.
2️⃣ Request Removal: If opt-out tools aren’t available, search for each data broker’s policy and follow their instructions for manually removing yourself. A good starting place is the data broker’s website.
3️⃣ Stay Vigilant: Unfortunately, new data brokers will pop up over time. Regularly check for updated lists or databases of these companies so you can stay one step ahead.
Here are some of the top data brokers and their contact information:
- Experian: A well-known consumer credit reporting agency, Experian also collects a large amount of data on consumers, which they sell to businesses for marketing and other purposes. They can be contacted at https://www.experian.com/contact/personal-services-contacts.html
- Acxiom: One of the leading global data brokers, Acxiom offers data on over 2.5 billion consumers across 62 countries. They collect data from various sources and sell it to companies in the finance, retail, automotive, insurance, telecommunications, and government sectors. You can contact them here: https://www.acxiom.com/about-us/contact-us/
- Equifax: Another major credit reporting agency, Equifax is also a data broker that collects financial and identifying data on individuals and businesses. Contact them at https://www.equifax.com/personal/contact-us/
It’s important to note that opting out of data brokers’ services can be a complex process. While some data brokers offer opt-out options on their websites, these processes may not be easy to navigate and may not be entirely effective.
💡 Section 5: Replace Negative with Positive
Now it’s time to rebuild! We’ve taken great strides towards cleansing our digital existence, but let’s not forget that creating positive content is equally important.
1️⃣ Create a Personal Website or Blog: A great way to present yourself professionally is by curating an online space where YOU have control over the narrative.
2️⃣ Rebuild Social Presence: Create strong profiles on platforms relevant to your industry and engage positively within those communities. Cultivate a positive digital persona!
3️⃣ Share Knowledge & Expertise: Contribute guest posts on reputable sites, share insights on social media, or even start a YouTube channel if that’s up your alley!
And there you have it – your journey towards scrubbing yourself from the internet as best as possible! 🧽✨ Remember, folks, this isn’t about completely disappearing – rather, it’s about taking control of YOUR digital story and showcasing your best self.
Are you ready to embark on this adventure? I believe in you! How would you start scrubbing away your online presence? Let me know below, and let’s tackle this together! 🖐️😊